Par for the Cause: Highlights from Our 2024 Annual Golf & Tennis Classic

On July 25, 2024, Safe At Home hosted its highly anticipated Annual Golf & Tennis Classic at the prestigious Sleepy Hollow Country Club in Scarborough, New York. This 20th-year event, which sold out well in advance, was a testament to the dedication and support of our community, sponsors, and guests.

The day began with a delightful breakfast, where participants eagerly connected and set the stage for a memorable day. The excitement was palpable as a star-studded lineup of celebrity guests, including Rick Cerone, Willie Colon, Ken Dashow, Ken Daneyko, Donny Marshall, Jim Leyritz, Jeff Nelson, Lee Mazzilli, Tino Martinez, Dan Plesac, John Starks, Mike Richter, and Tom Verducci, graced us with their presence. Their engagement added an extraordinary touch, making the day truly special.

Participants in the tennis clinic and round-robin tournament put in their best efforts, working up a sweat and enjoying the beautiful weather. Meanwhile, golfers competed in a “Best Ball” format, aiming for the lowest net and gross scores. The camaraderie and friendly competition were highlights of the day. 

Congratulations to all of our award winners:

Low Gross: Bob Devlin, Michael Devlin, Michael Gilmore, John Hoffman, Elliot Levine, John Starks

Low Net: Andrew Clarke, Mike Shea, Sean Byrne, Brian Shapiro, Matt Boland

Closest to the Pin: Scott Burrell, Marie Jensen

Longest Drive: Whit Mayberry, Johanna Redpath

Tennis Round Robin: Maury Gostfrand, Steve Pastor, Lori Sunkin, Andrea Torre

As the sun set, guests gathered for a picturesque cocktail hour on the lawn, followed by a dinner reception under the tent. The evening was highlighted by heartfelt speeches and special recognitions.

The evening opened with a welcome and gratitude from Bob Murray, our Golf Committee Chair, whose leadership and commitment have been instrumental in the success of the Golf & Tennis Classic. He expressed his thanks to everyone for their support and dedication to Safe At Home.

Ali and Joe Torre then took the stage to reflect on Safe At Home’s journey and how far we have come in our mission to end the cycle of domestic violence.

Maile Zambuto, our CEO, spoke about the transformative power of the Margaret’s Place programs, sharing inspiring stories of students who have found hope and healing through Safe At Home. She also took a moment to recognize and introduce our honoree, Frank Longobardi, a dedicated board member whose passion, leadership, and support have been instrumental in Safe At Home’s growth and success. Frank’s heartfelt remarks highlighted the importance of our mission and the impact we continue to make. His energy and motivation were also key in driving the success of our evening pledge donations.

“Being a part of Safe at Home, I am reminded every single day how different my childhood could have been if I had the gift of Margaret’s Place at my school. How much safer I could have been. And how much braver the community around me would have been in responding to the abuse if they were empowered with knowledge, education and understanding. I am also reminded every day that the children who come to Margaret’s Place, they are our guides to Safe at Home’s greatest ambition–a safer and braver world.” - Maile Zambuto, Chief Executive Office

We were also honored to be joined by Fritz Simeon, a recent graduate of White Plains HS where we have had a Margaret’s Place program for over 15 years. Fritz moved many in the audience as he spoke about the support and guidance he received through Margaret’s Place, specifically through Ms. S, who accompanied Fritz on stage. Ms. S started her journey as a Margaret’s Place student and is now guiding students to heal and grow through the same supportive environment—a true testament to the transformative power of our programs.

"I was always a kid who was dealing with stress, depression and anxiety. And school was very stressful for me. I came to a point I just wanted to give up. But when I started talking to Ms. S she started helping me out with my feelings and problems and I felt supported.” - Fritz Simeon, Margaret's Place alumn

One of the highlights of the evening was the panel featuring Joe Torre, Ken Daneyko, John Starks, Jim Leyritz, and Tim O’Neill. The panelists reminisced about their days in sports, sharing laughs, insights, and previously unheard stories. The conversation provided a unique perspective on their illustrious careers and the lessons they’ve learned along the way.

We extend our deepest gratitude to our Golf & Tennis Committee: Bob Murray, Chair; Kyle Driscoll; Rob Gaynor; Maury Gostfrand; Tim O’Neill; Gerry Polizzi; Matt Roux. Special thanks to the Kalafer family, Clinton Honda, and Land Rover Princeton for sponsoring our Hole-in-One cars on holes 7 & 10, to Major League Baseball and Pedigree Ski Shop for their generous gift bag donations, to Capital One for their raffle donation, to WFAN radio for broadcasting live throughout the day, Goodman Media International, Inc. for their media support, our event photographer John Chan, our staff and volunteers, our sponsors, and to all our celebrity guests who made the event even more memorable. Your unwavering support is the backbone of our efforts to create safer, braver spaces for children and families.

Thank you to everyone who participated and made the 2024 Annual Golf & Tennis Classic a truly unforgettable event. As we reflect on this incredible day, we are filled with gratitude and inspiration. The funds raised will directly benefit Safe At Home’s groundbreaking Margaret’s Place initiative, allowing us to continue providing safe spaces for empowerment, education, and understanding.

Join us in shaping a world free from harm. We are safer, and braver, together.

Couldn’t join us this year? Make a contribution below.

We look forward to seeing you next year!

Summer Wellness & Self-Care Toolkit

With school out, summer is often portrayed as a time of endless fun, relaxation, and adventure. However, while many enjoy the break, others face unique challenges and stressors. This season can be particularly difficult for both youth and adults, as everyone navigates different experiences and pressures that come with the warmer months.

According to a survey by the U.S. Department of Justice, Seasonal Patterns in Criminal Victimization Trends, intimate partner violence increases by 12 percent in the summer months compared to other seasons.

Some factors that come into play are:

  • Increased stresses due to summer break for children
  • Increased temperatures
  • Increase in alcohol and drug intake. NOTE: While these factors may possibly increase abuse, they are certainly not the cause of domestic violence and are not to blame; intoxication doesn’t cause abuse, and sobriety doesn’t stop it.
  • Increased numbers of parties, drinking, and idle time make teen dating violence tragic for many young people.
  • The Department of Justice also found that women ages 16 to 24 are at the highest risk of becoming victims of domestic violence.

(Source: Bridges Domestic Violence Center)

In an effort to support our community and provide helpful tools, we’re sharing free resources and opportunities for youth and adults, focusing on personal growth, educational exploration, and community engagement. We hope these summer resources provide enriching and memorable experiences so that we can make the most of this time away from school. Enjoy and have a safe summer ahead!

A Guide to Coping Skills

What do you do when you feel down? Pick one or two coping skills and practice them for at least a month. Remember, coping skills are like habits: they need time and repetition!

  1. Move: Go for a walk, stretch, dance, or sing.
  2. Release Tension: Stretch, close your fist tightly and squeeze for 10 seconds before releasing, or exercise.
  3. Practice Mindfulness: Focus on an object near you—its shape, color, size, design, temperature.
  4. Journal: Write, draw, or doodle about how you feel, your thoughts, something you’re hoping for, or something that makes you happy.
  5. Visualize: Think of something that makes you happy—a place, activity, person, or object. Stick with this memory until you feel calmer.
  6. Create: Practice your preferred craft—drawing, beading, cooking, dancing, singing, etc.
  7. Practice Repetition: Trace your hand with your finger or use box breathing.
  8. Find or Create a Moment of Peace: Enjoy taking deep breaths, listen to a soothing song, connect your fingertips with each other, and count to 10.
Wheel of Emotions adapted from Brene Browns Atlas of the Heart

Resources to Make This Summer Safe, Productive, and Exciting!

Taking Care: Supporting Yourself and Others

Explore our YouTube playlist to learn about different ways to self-care, the importance of self-care, and how you can best find the balance in caring for yourself and others.

Mind/Body Exercise Worksheets

Consider incorporating these mind/body exercises from joetorre.org into your routine to enhance your well-being.

Self Care and Mindfulness Apps

Headspace offers guided meditation and mindfulness practices to help reduce stress, improve focus, and enhance overall well-being.

Calm provides a variety of mindfulness exercises, including sleep stories, meditation, and relaxation techniques to help you manage stress and find peace.

Insight Timer features a vast library of free guided meditations, music tracks, and talks from mindfulness experts to support your daily meditation practice.

Guided Meditations

Tara Branch

Tara Brach – Guided meditations focused on mindfulness and compassion, offering techniques to cultivate a deep sense of awareness and self-acceptance.

Kristin Neff

Kristen Neff – Guided self-compassion meditations to help you develop kindness and understanding towards yourself, enhancing emotional resilience and well-being.

tricia Hersey

Nap Ministry: Call 1-833-LUV-NAPS for pre-recorded rest messages from Tricia Hersey to encourage and promote the importance of rest as a form of self-care.

Where to Find Help

Emergency Services

Psychiatric Emergency Rooms for children 18 and younger. Not all hospitals have these facilities, but children can be evaluated in any emergency room and hospital staff will consult with the family about next steps.

Helplines

  • TEEN LINE: (310) 855-HOPE or (800) TLC-TEEN / (800) 852-8336. A teen-to-teen hotline with community outreach services, 6pm-10pm PST daily. Visit Teen Line Online for more info.
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233. Visit thehotline.org.
  • In cases of emergency, call 911 immediately.

Free Counseling

Talkspace (Teenspace)

Teens ages 13-17 can gain access to Talkspace services in just a few steps:

  1. Click on ‘Get started’ and enter their birthdate and zip code to qualify.
  2. Answer a few questions about themselves.
  3. Enter a parent or guardian’s email address who will then provide consent (if the teen has chosen therapy).
Talk Space Teens Free Therapy Graphic

Teens are typically matched to a therapist licensed in New York within 24 hours. Once signed up, they have access to one live video session per month and unlimited messaging therapy from their computer or cellphone. Teens can send messages to their Talkspace therapist 24/7. Therapists generally respond every day, 5 days per week.

We hope these resources and tips help you prioritize wellness and self-care this summer.

Remember, taking time for yourself is crucial for your overall well-being.

Enjoy the summer, stay safe, and take care!

Explore more resources. 

Team hands all in

Minor League Baseball and Joe Torre Safe At Home Partner to End the Cycle of Violence and Save Lives

NEW YORK, July 9, 2024 — For the eighth year, Minor League Baseball™ (MiLB™) and Joe Torre Safe At Home have teamed up to raise awareness about violence and abuse and to empower fans at MiLB ballparks to join them in building a safer, braver world together. More than 45 MiLB teams will participate in this year’s in-ballpark initiative from June 9 – September 2, 2024.  

This summer at select MiLB games, each participating team will raffle or auction off a Joe Torre autographed baseball with proceeds benefitting Safe At Home. Additionally, fans in attendance will receive a Topps® card pack including a Safe At Home Topps® card, featuring Joe Torre’s personal story. To support the initiative, teams will make public address announcements dedicated to ending domestic violence, provide educational materials to fans, and share the news on social media.  

“Millions are exposed to violence, trauma, and abuse every year. It is vital that we raise awareness and that they have access to support,” said Joe Torre, baseball Hall of Famer and co-founder and co-chair, Safe At Home. “We are proud to partner with Minor League Baseball and Topps to educate and inspire MiLB fans to make a difference and join us in cultivating a new generation of healthy, respectful relationships, where everybody feels safe at home. Join us in building a safer, braver world together.”

More than 20 years ago, Ali and Joe Torre founded Safe At Home to end the cycle of violence and abuse through education. Today, with education as its foundation, in schools and beyond, it strengthens every person’s courage, knowledge, and resilience through healthy relationship building, coping and self- care tools, and accessible resources. It teaches children, families, and communities to be changemakers who build a world free from harm. Through its Margaret’s Place model, named in honor of Joe’s mother, Safe at Home creates a safe space in schools, offering both trauma informed intervention and prevention services for empowerment, education, and understanding.  Safe at Home currently has 20 Margaret’s Place sites that operate in New York and Westchester, NY; Los Angeles, CA; Cincinnati, OH; and Tahiti, French Polynesia. This school year, Margaret’s Place programs have reached 21,394 students, and since its inception, Safe At Home has served more than 181,000 youth, their families and communities. 

“At Safe At Home, we teach children, families, and communities to be changemakers, to embrace the shared responsibility of care and respect,” added Ali Torre, co-founder and president, Safe At Home. “Through education, counseling, training, and leadership, everyone learns how to show up and support each other. Safe At Home is cultivating a new generation of healthy, respectful relationships, paving the way for generations to come.”

For more information, visit www.joetorre.org.  

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