Ali Torre, alongside Joe, expressed their deep appreciation for the guests who made the evening possible and shared their commitment to standing alongside the communities that need it most. Ali introduced a short film featuring current Margaret’s Place students ranging from elementary through high school, giving us a powerful glimpse into how our programs are creating a tangible impact. As the next generation of changemakers, we witnessed their resilience, growth, and efforts to create safer, braver spaces in their communities, offering a moving reminder of the real, lasting change we are making together. 

We had the incredible honor of celebrating Lori Yve Sunkin, LMFT, a dedicated Board Member and psychotherapist, for her extraordinary contributions to the mental health field, and her unwavering commitment to supporting individuals through trauma, transition, and healing for over 30 years. Lori’s profound impact on the Safe At Home mission was acknowledged with heartfelt words from Denise and Bryan Freedman, who introduced her as our 2025 honoree.

Lori was greeted with a standing ovation, and expressed her gratitude.

Maile Zambuto, our CEO, spoke from the heart, sharing her deep belief in the strength, courage and resilience of the youth we serve and the vital role Safe At Home plays in their healing journey. She introduced our Hope & Healing film.

We were inspired by Susan Toler Carr, Co-founder & Executive Director of the Justin Carr Wants World Peace Foundation, who shared a deeply personal message about grief, healing, and the importance of building community. Susan spoke candidly about the loss of her son, Justin, and the pain of losing cherished memories related to him in the fires. Her words resonated deeply with everyone in the room as she spoke about the strength and resilience we all carry in the face of loss and tragedy.  

The evening concluded with a beautiful performance by MILCK, a recording artist, writer, producer, and social change artist known for her anthemic songs that give voice to the emotions behind global and grassroots movements. MILCK performed “Power of the Heart” from her new album, as her music brought us all closer together with a message of healing and empowerment.

Following MILCK, Matt Scannell, lead singer and guitarist of Vertical Horizon, shared a selection of songs with the crowd. Matt, the songwriter behind the #1 Billboard hit “Everything You Want,” reminded us of the power of connection through art and song. “Music is where we find healing,” Matt said. “It’s where we all come together, no matter our differences, to find common ground.”

As the night came to a close, we were reminded of the collective strength of our community. Thanks to your incredible support, we continue to expand our reach and impact, helping young people and families across Los Angeles and beyond.

Charmaine Bailey • Joseph & Rita Cohen • Lindsay Crystal Miller • Gia Levin

Edward Mady • Mareva Marciano • Neda Marroso • Alison Petrocelli • Jeff Proctor

Michelle Richman • Tawny Sanders • Ken Scherer • Vaun Wilmott • Richard Weitz

Proceeds to fund Safe At Home Los Angeles in-school programs, which continues its expansion with a new presence at Palisades Charter High School

Gala special guests include Ian Bagg, Connie Lim (MILCK), Kim Raver, Susan Saint James, and Matt Scannell of Vertical Horizon

LOS ANGELES, CA, April 24, 2025 — Joe Torre Safe At Home will host its 2025 annual Los Angeles gala on Thursday, May 1, 2025 at The Maybourne Beverly Hills. Founded in 2002 by Joe and Ali Torre, with education as its foundation, Safe At Home promotes children’s safety, well-being, and hope for their future by providing healing services and education to end the cycle of domestic violence and save lives.

Safe At Home’s Margaret’s Place program, named in honor of Joe’s beloved mother, creates safe spaces in schools to provide intervention and prevention services to students who are impacted by violence and abuse. Margaret’s Place is staffed by a full-time, master’s-level counselor who provides individual and group counseling, a violence prevention education curriculum in classrooms, leads peer leadership to empower students to become advocates against violence and lead schoolwide anti-violence campaigns, holds workshops for school staff and administration to build a safer school environment, and provides workshops for parents to make homes and communities stronger.

Since arriving in Los Angeles in 2011, Safe At Home has opened 18 Margaret’s Place programs serving K-12 students across Los Angeles – including schools near Altadena and the Pacific Palisades. Proceeds from the Los Angeles gala will help fund Safe At Home’s work in Los Angeles, as well as provide trauma-informed support, healing resources, and education to those affected by the Los Angeles wildfires, ensuring that youth and families have the tools they need to rebuild and thrive.

“The impact of violence, abuse and trauma on children, families and communities is devastating and the disasters such as the Los Angeles wildfires can exacerbate a situation,” said Joe Torre, baseball Hall of Famer and co-founder and co-chair, Safe At Home. “Bringing our resources and services directly into school programming will help us end the cycle of domestic violence and, ultimately, save lives. Children are the most vulnerable to trauma, especially after a disaster, reinforcing how critical it is to provide support systems that help children process and heal.”

Special guests at the gala include Ian Bagg, Connie Lim (MILCK), Kim Raver, Susan Saint James, and Matt Scannell of Vertical Horizon. This year, Safe At Home will honor Lori Yve Sunkin, LMFT, a dedicated Board Member and psychotherapist, who has spent 30 years helping people navigate trauma, transition and healing, including most recently those impacted by the Los Angeles wildfires.

In addition, Safe At Home has partnered with Palisades Charter High School by establishing a Margaret’s Place program in its temporary space in the Sears Building in Santa Monica that opened this week. In addition to being on-site, Safe At Home will offer safe virtual spaces for Virtual Institute students, teachers, school staff, parents, and caregivers. When Pali High returns to its community, Safe At Home plans to ensure ongoing support for students long-term with a permanent Margaret’s Place program.

“Safe At Home is part of the Los Angeles community and, in the wake of the devastating fires, we are more committed than ever to creating safe spaces for youth and families,” said Maile Zambuto, CEO, Safe At Home. “Since the wildfires, we have reached over 1.4 million students, families and communities with direct therapeutic services, educational tools and resources, virtual spaces, and digital content to promote healing and resiliency. We’re especially grateful that our Los Angeles gala will help sustain and expand our transformative work in the community.”

Safe at Home currently has 30 Margaret’s Place sites that operate in New York and Westchester, NY; Los Angeles, CA; Cincinnati, OH; and Tahiti, French Polynesia. Each year, Margaret’s Place programs reach more than 37,000 students, and since its inception, Safe At Home has served hundreds of thousands of youth, families and communities. Its impact reverberates far beyond the classroom—it strengthens families, uplifts schools, and touches entire communities.

For more information, visit www.joetorre.org.

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Media Contact:

Sabrina Strauss

Goodman Media International

sstrauss@goodmanmedia.com 

Teen Dating Violence (TDV) is more common than many realize, affecting nearly 1 in 3 teens in the U.S. It involves any form of abusive behavior used to control or manipulate a partner in a dating relationship. This abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual, or digital, and it can occur in both in-person and online settings. The effects of TDV are long-lasting, impacting not only a teen’s immediate well-being but also their future relationships, mental health, and self-esteem. Recognizing the different forms of TDV is the first step toward preventing it, and understanding what makes a healthy relationship is essential to ending the cycle of abuse.

TDV encompasses any type of abusive behavior used to control or manipulate a partner in a dating relationship. This abuse can take many forms, including:

• Physical Abuse: Hitting, slapping, pushing, or other forms of physical harm.
• Emotional and Psychological Abuse: Controlling behavior, verbal attacks, isolation, manipulation, or threats.
• Sexual Abuse: Any form of non-consensual sexual activity or coercion.
• Digital Abuse: Using technology to control or intimidate a partner, including cyberbullying, monitoring social media, or tracking a partner’s location.

The impact of TDV is significant—both physically and emotionally. It can affect a teen’s mental health, academic performance, and social life. Unfortunately, many teens may not recognize that they are in an abusive relationship or may feel too afraid to speak out.

The best way to prevent TDV is through education. Teaching teens about healthy relationships is vital for preventing abuse. Healthy relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and communication. Here are some key characteristics of a healthy relationship:

• Respect for boundaries: Each person has the right to their own space, thoughts, and feelings.
• Effective communication: Open, honest conversations where both people listen to and respect each other.
• Equality: Both partners should have an equal say in decisions and should never feel forced or controlled.
• Support and care: Healthy partners support each other’s personal goals and well-being.

Encouraging teens to understand these qualities can help them make healthier relationship choices and avoid entering abusive situations.

Take our Healthy Relationships Challenge

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to know that support is available. During the holidays, many people experience increased mental health struggles, and seeking help is crucial. Whether you need someone to talk to or professional support, there are numerous resources available to assist you.

Helpful Resources:

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text “HOME” to 741741
• Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Our Holiday Mental Health Resource Guide also provides practical steps and support for individuals and families navigating the emotional challenges of the season.

Descarga nuestro Guía de Recursos Para Los Días Festivo en Espanol. 

Preventing TDV requires a community effort. Parents, educators, peers, and communities all play a significant role in stopping dating violence before it starts. Here are some important prevention strategies:

• Educate teens about healthy relationships: Regularly engage in conversations about what healthy relationships look like. Make sure teens know the importance of respect, boundaries, and equality in any relationship. Encouraging open, honest conversations can build their confidence to make safe choices.
• Foster strong communication skills: Teach teens how to express themselves effectively, ask for help when needed, and stand up for themselves. Healthy communication skills help teens resolve conflicts without resorting to control or manipulation.
• Promote self-esteem and confidence: Help teens develop a strong sense of self-worth. A teen with healthy self-esteem is more likely to recognize when they’re being mistreated and less likely to tolerate harmful behavior in a relationship.
• Encourage healthy social media habits: In the digital age, relationships are often monitored or manipulated online. Discuss the dangers of digital abuse, such as controlling texts, social media surveillance, or cyberbullying, and help teens understand what constitutes digital boundaries. Teens should be aware that digital abuse is a real and serious issue. Behaviors like constantly checking a partner’s phone, pressuring for passwords, or monitoring social media are signs of control, not care. Encourage open discussions about how social media should be used respectfully, and what to do if they feel their digital space is being violated.
• Provide resources and support: Make sure teens know where to turn for help if they experience or witness TDV. Whether it’s a school counselor, helpline, or community resource, teens should always have accessible support. Offer resources like the Love is Respect Hotline (Text “LOVEIS” to 22522) and the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (1-800-799-7233).

Download our Teen Dating Violence Tip Card

Descarga nuestra tarjeta de consejos sobre violencia en el noviazgo juvenil en español.

Descarga nuestro Guía de Recursos Para Los Días Festivo en Espanol. 

Download our Upstander Pledge in English and Español

Starting a conversation about TDV may feel uncomfortable, but it’s one of the most important steps in preventing it. Teens and young adults may not always recognize unhealthy relationship dynamics, so it’s crucial to create an environment where they feel safe discussing these issues openly. Here are some strategies to approach these conversations:

1. Choose the Right Moment: Find a time when you and the teen or friend are relaxed, such as during a car ride, while watching a show, or during a meal. Make sure it’s a moment where you’re both not distracted or stressed, so they feel comfortable talking.
2. Use Media to Spark Dialogue: Sometimes, it’s easier to start these conversations through shared media like movies, TV shows, or social media. You can ask questions like, “What do you think about the way they handled that situation?” or “Have you seen something similar in your own friendships?” This helps ease into a discussion about TDV.
3. Focus on Respect and Boundaries: Start by emphasizing that a healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, trust, and clearly defined boundaries. Explain that both people in a relationship should feel comfortable and valued. Share examples of what respectful communication and behavior look like.
4. Normalize the Conversation: Let your teen or friend know that it’s normal to talk about relationships. These conversations shouldn’t be difficult, and everyone deserves to feel respected and safe in a relationship. Let them know abusive behaviors, such as controlling, belittling, or pressuring, are not acceptable.
5. Be Open, Listen, and Validate: When they talk, listen without interrupting. Acknowledge their feelings and validate what they’re saying. Let them know it’s okay to express concern or discomfort about a relationship, and that they deserve to feel supported.
6. Provide Resources and Support: If they or someone they know is experiencing TDV, make sure they know where to go for help. Share important resources such as the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE), Love is Respect (Text “LOVEIS” to 22522), or a trusted school counselor. Let them know they’re not alone.
7. Discuss Healthy vs. Unhealthy Relationships: Help them recognize the difference between a healthy and unhealthy relationship. Healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and equality, while unhealthy relationships involve control, jealousy, and disrespect. Encourage them to prioritize mutual respect and communication in their relationships.

Download our Healthy Relationship Conversations Cards

• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
• Love is Respect: Text “LOVEIS” to 22522 or call 1-866-331-9474
• The Domestic Violence Resource Center
• Local school counselors and community centers: Many schools provide free resources for students facing dating violence.

Let’s work together to ensure all teens understand the importance of respect in relationships. Share this blog with friends, start the conversation with your teens, and make sure everyone knows where to find help if they need it. Together, we can make a lasting impact in ending teen dating violence and fostering healthier, more respectful relationships.

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Safe at Home Video: https://www.littleleague.org/videos/safe-at-home-joe-torre/ 

SOUTH WILLIAMSPORT, Pa. (April 1, 2025) – As the world’s largest and most trusted youth sports organization, with more than one million dedicated volunteers spanning 80+ countries, Little League® understands the tremendous responsibility we share in safeguarding the well-being of our players. As we recognize National Child Abuse Prevention Month in April, Little League is proud to showcase the various resources available for both parents and volunteers to help provide a safe and memorable experience for Little Leaguers® in communities all over.

Founded in 1939, Little League® is the world’s largest organized youth sports program, with approximately two million players (ages 4-16) playing baseball and softball in communities across every U.S. state and more than 80 other countries. Operated by more than one million volunteers, Little League believes in the power of youth baseball and softball to teach life lessons that build stronger individuals and communities. From professional athletes and award-winning celebrities, to public officials and other influential members of society, Little League graduates have taken the lessons they learned, both on and off the field, to create the next chapter of the Little League story. Each year, millions of people follow the hard work, dedication, and sportsmanship that Little Leaguers® display at our seven baseball and softball World Series events, the premier tournaments in youth sports. For more information, visit LittleLeague.org, and follow Little League (@LittleLeague) on Facebook, X/Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. When we all come together, we are truly One Team. One Little League.

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For more information contact:

Kevin Fountain, Little League® Senior Director of Communications

E-mail: KFountain@LittleLeague.org ; Website: LittleLeague.org/Media

Office: 570-326-1921, ext. 2325; Cell: 570-295-7728

In the aftermath of the Los Angeles fires, many communities are grappling with the trauma of displacement, loss, and overwhelming uncertainty. The devastation goes beyond the loss of homes, impacting the very core of individuals’ lives—shaking their sense of safety and identity. This trauma is often compounded by the loss of community, routines, and rituals that provide grounding, especially for children, who are among the most vulnerable.

In times like these, the strength of community and collective resilience becomes our greatest asset. They reinforce the urgency of our mission: to create a world where every home is safe. We stand in solidarity with all who have experienced the loss of a safe place, reaffirming our commitment to a future free from harm.

To support you during this challenging time, we’ve created a Hope & Healing Workbook in both English and Spanish. This resource offers practical guidance for youth, parents, caregivers, and educators as they navigate the aftermath of the fires. The workbook includes worksheets, activities, and exercises focused on safety planning, emotional support, and tips for discussing resilience and coping strategies with children.

Additionally, we are providing the Los Angeles Wildfires Resources Kit, also available in English and Spanish. It includes essential resources on safety planning, psychological support, and advice on how to talk to children and adolescents about the fires.

Download our Los Angeles Wildfires Resources Kit in English

Descargue nuestro Kit de Recursos para los Incendios Forestales de Los Ángeles en Español

You can find a comprehensive list of resources below, which includes evacuation information, stress management strategies, and guidance on being an ally to those affected.

Finally, we extend our heartfelt thanks to the brave LAFD firefighters and all the dedicated crews who have traveled from near and far, selflessly risking their lives to protect our communities.

Please stay safe, and email contact@joetorre.org for further assistance.

We are safer, and braver, together.

Updated: 02/06/2025

• Trinka & Sam – The Big Fire: A free coloring book series developed to help young children and families begin to talk about feelings and worries they may have after experiencing a large-scale fire, like a wildfire.
• Speaking with Your Child About Grief: A video to help guide conversations about grief with your children.

• LA County DMH
• Be Well Bruin Peer Run Warm Line
• California Peer-Run Warm Line 24/7 at 855 845 7415

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline  Available 24/7 via phone, text, or online chat. Call: 988
• Disaster Distress Helpline (SAMHSA)  Call: (800) 985-5990
• Trevor Project Lifeline  For LGBTQ+ youth in crisis. Call: (800) 788-7386
• Crisis Text Line  Text “LA” to: 741741
• Substance Abuse Service Helpline  Call: (844) 804-7500
• 211 LA County  Dial: 211 for information and referrals.

• Los Angeles Homeless Outreach Portal (LA-HOP)  Assists people experiencing homelessness.
• L.A. Found  For locating individuals who wander due to cognitive impairments. Call: (833) 569-7651
• Family Urgent Response System (FURS)  Call or Text: 1-833-939-FURS

• Real-time fire alerts: Watch Duty App
• Satellite Fire Map: Fire Incident Data
• Latest Evacuation Map: Evacuation Zones Map
• LA County Emergency Alerts: AlertLA Registration
• Go Bag Tips: What to Put in Your Go Bag
• Resources for Santa-Monica Malibu USD Staff and Families

• Westwood Recreation Center • 1350 S Sepulveda Blvd, 90025
  Open for evacuees and accepts small animals. Now also serves as a shelter for residents to remain overnight.
• LA Dream Center • 2301 Bellevue Ave, 90026
  Providing shelter, clothing, meals, and support for families and animals. Call 213-273-7000.
• Trinity Lutheran Church • 997 E. Walnut St., Pasadena 91106
  Offering hot meals, beds, restrooms, and case management services. Call 888-915-8111 to check shelter activation.
• Pasadena Convention Center • 300 E. Green St., Pasadena 91101
• El Camino Real Charter High School • 5440 Valley Circle Blvd, Woodland Hills, CA 91367
• Northridge Park • 10120 Reseda Blvd, Northridge, CA 91324
• Ritchie Valens Recreation Center • 10736 Laurel Canyon Blvd, Pacoima, CA 91331
• Sepulveda Recreation Center • 8825 Kester Ave, Panorama City, CA 91402
• Airbnb – Partnering with 211 LA to offer free, temporary housing for those displaced or evacuated. They are specifically focused on residents in the Altadena, Malibu, Pacific Palisades, Pasadena, Santa Monica, and Sylmar areas. For more information, visit: 211LA.org/LA-Wildfires

• Los Angeles Equestrian Center • 480 Riverside Dr, Burbank
  Open for large animal evacuations.
• Pierce College Equestrian Center • 7100 El Rancho Drive, Woodland Hills
• Rose Bowl Stadium • 1001 Rose Bowl Dr, Pasadena, CA 91103
• Agoura Animal Care Center • 29525 Agoura Rd, Agoura Hills, CA 91301
• Pasadena Humane Society • 361 S Raymond Ave, Pasadena, CA 91105

• Canine Rescue Club: Volunteer for displaced pets and animals. Volunteer Here
• My Safe LA: Partners with the LA Fire Department to enhance community resilience. Volunteer Here
• American Red Cross: Urgent need for disaster shelter volunteers. Volunteer Here
• Volunteer Los Angeles County: Various disaster response and recovery efforts. Volunteer Here

• Community Foundation’s Wildfire Recovery Fund: Supporting recovery efforts for major California wildfires. Donate Here
• California Fire Foundation: Provides immediate relief to wildfire victims. Donate Here
• Habitat for Humanity of Greater Los Angeles: Assisting with rebuilding homes. Donate Here
• Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation: Supporting firefighters battling the wildfires. Donate Here
• World Central Kitchen: Serving meals to communities impacted by natural disasters. Donate Here

The holiday season can bring joy, but it can also create stress, sadness, and emotional challenges. With kids home from school and the hustle of holiday activities, stress levels can rise quickly for parents/caregivers and children alike. Prioritizing your mental health is essential, and carving out moments for self-care can make a big difference. Here are five strategies to help you stay grounded and centered throughout the holidays.

Self-care is essential during the holidays. A survey by the American Psychological Association found that nearly 38% of people report higher stress levels during the season. Taking time for activities that rejuvenate you—whether it’s a quiet walk, reading a book, or engaging in relaxation techniques like deep breathing or meditation—can help you stay balanced. Be sure to set boundaries to protect your time and energy. Consider downloading our Winter Wellness & Self-Care Plan that includes physical and mental health practices to help you stay grounded.

Quick Self-Care Tips:

• Take Breaks: Find moments to rest and recharge throughout your day.
• Stay Active: Regular physical activity boosts mood and reduces stress.
• Set Boundaries: Saying “no” when you need time for yourself is vital for mental well-being.

Download our Winter Wellness & Self-Care Plan

Descarga nuestro Plan de Bienestar y Cuidado Personal de Invierno en Español.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to know that support is available. During the holidays, many people experience increased mental health struggles, and seeking help is crucial. Whether you need someone to talk to or professional support, there are numerous resources available to assist you.

Helpful Resources:

• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line: Text “HOME” to 741741
• Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233

Our Holiday Mental Health Resource Guide also provides practical steps and support for individuals and families navigating the emotional challenges of the season.

Descarga nuestro Guía de Recursos Para Los Días Festivo en Espanol. 

Descarga nuestro Guía de Recursos Para Los Días Festivo en Espanol. 

For many, the holiday season can be especially difficult due to grief and loss. Whether it’s the passing of a loved one or another form of loss, it’s important to acknowledge and process these feelings in a healthy way. Activities like journaling, creating a memory jar, or simply taking time to reflect on your emotions can help provide comfort during this time. Remember, grief doesn’t have a set timeline, and it’s okay to feel however you feel during the holidays.

View our video “Speaking to Your Child About Grief” for support navigating conversations during these difficult times.

Mira nuestro video “Hablando con tu hijo sobre el duelo” para obtener apoyo al navegar conversaciones durante estos tiempos difíciles.

This holiday season, prioritize your mental health by practicing these coping strategies. Remember, it’s okay to take a step back when needed, seek support, and focus on what truly matters. The holidays don’t have to be perfect—they can be meaningful when we take care of ourselves and each other.

Paper Snowflake Tutorial

Estrategias de Afrontamiento Saludables y Dañinas

The holiday season invites us to reflect on gratitude, build stronger connections, and give back to our communities. It’s a special time to gather with loved ones, share stories, and engage in traditions that celebrate unity and compassion. Research shows that intergenerational connections—between grandparents, parents, children, and extended family—not only deepen bonds but also boost mental well-being and resilience for everyone involved.

Building connections across generations allows family members to learn from each other’s experiences. Intergenerational relationships foster empathy, reduce isolation, and give youth valuable insights into family history and cultural heritage (Kaplan, 2018). In a world where isolation and stress are prevalent, these meaningful bonds offer a sense of belonging and continuity.

• Shared Hobbies or Skills: Engage in activities where one generation teaches the other—whether cooking, technology, or crafts. These shared experiences create lasting memories and deepen mutual understanding.

2. Foster Respectful Dialogue

• Practice Active Listening: Show respect by listening attentively and avoiding interruptions.
• Share Family Stories: Focus on stories that highlight family strength and resilience. These create shared history and reinforce connections.
• Keep an Open Mind: Encourage curiosity by asking questions and showing interest in each other’s experiences, bridging generational gaps. Try our A Walk In My Shoes: Family Art Activity to get to know your loved ones more deeply.

3. Practice Gratitude

Gratitude enhances well-being, increasing happiness, reducing depression, and strengthening relationships (Emmons & McCullough, 2003). To foster gratitude this holiday season, consider these activities:

• Gratitude Jar: Create a family gratitude jar, where everyone can jot down things they’re thankful for throughout the month. At the end of the season, take time to read each note aloud and reflect together as a family. You can also download our Gratitude Jar worksheet. 
• Thank You Notes: Encourage family members to write thank you notes to people who’ve made a positive impact in their lives. This simple act strengthens connections.
• Gratitude Circle: During family gatherings, ask everyone to share one thing they’re grateful for. This practice sparks meaningful conversation and reinforces a sense of togetherness.

4. Give Back and Volunteer

Volunteering together during the holiday season encourages compassion and gives younger generations a hands-on understanding of generosity and empathy. According to Psychology Today, volunteering can increase life satisfaction and reduce stress, especially when done as part of a group (Schwartz, 2018).

Consider these ideas for giving back as a family:

• Community Service Projects: Volunteer at local food banks, shelters, or other community centers. Consider using the Deed App to find volunteer opportunities.
• Assemble Care Packages: Create care packages with essentials like food, hygiene products, and notes of encouragement. Assembling packages together can spark conversations about gratitude and giving, making a positive impact on those in need. Use our care package checklist for support.
• Support Local Organizations: Find a cause that resonates with your family, such as youth empowerment or elder care, and support it through donations or volunteer work. This shared experience can create a sense of purpose and community involvement.

Bob Costas, a cornerstone of Safe At Home’s journey, has been with us since the beginning, hosting the New York Gala year after year. As a legendary broadcaster with a career spanning more than four decades, Bob has not only left an indelible mark on sports journalism but has also played a pivotal role in elevating Safe At Home’s mission since its inception. This year, as he prepares for his retirement from broadcasting, we honored his unwavering support and reflected on the profound impact he has made in inspiring others to join our cause.

Joe and Ali Torre took the stage to share updates on Safe At Home’s journey and its growing reach. They spoke about how the organization has expanded beyond classrooms through innovative partnerships, including a collaboration with Minor League Baseball (MiLB). This partnership has introduced Margaret’s Place tools and resources to 45 teams, reaching over 150,000 individuals across the country. Inspired by this success, Safe At Home is now working to bring these resources to Major League Baseball and Little League, with the latter reaching over 1 million coaches and volunteers nationwide to educate them on keeping kids safe.

Maile Zambuto, Safe At Home’s Chief Executive Officer, provided an inspiring update on the organization’s growth and achievements over the past year. By the end of 2024, Safe At Home will have 29 Margaret’s Place programs across three states and three international locations. This includes the addition of nine new programs this year alone, thanks to a multi-year partnership with the Los Angeles County Office of Education and Department of Mental Health. Maile also highlighted the success of Safe At Home’s pilot initiative to adapt the Margaret’s Place model for children as young as five years old, demonstrating the ability to address trauma at earlier stages of development.

A video showcasing the “Next Generation of Changemakers” featured Peace Warriors from PS 117, Peer Leaders from MS 217 in Queens, and students from White Plains High School. Their honest reflections on what it means to be a kid today captured the resilience, hope, and determination of the young people Safe At Home serves, underscoring the importance of creating spaces where they can thrive.

One of the evening’s most poignant moments came when professional baseball pitcher Zac Kristofak shared his deeply personal story. Zac and his brother experienced the tragic loss of their mother to domestic violence. Despite this unimaginable tragedy, Zac has channeled his resilience and determination into rising through the ranks of professional baseball, making his MLB debut with the Los Angeles Angels earlier this year. His connection to Safe At Home’s mission and his courage in sharing his story served as a powerful reminder of the importance of creating spaces for healing, hope, and resilience.

The generosity of attendees shone brightly during the live and program auctions, led by Jamie McDonald, as the audience came together to support Safe At Home’s vital work. Their enthusiasm and commitment underscored the collective dedication to empowering youth and building stronger communities.

We are deeply grateful to everyone who made this night possible: our Event Committee, Board of Directors, staff, Margaret’s Place counselors, and school principals. Thank you to our sponsors and donors, including our Official Airline Sponsor Delta Air Lines, our media partners at Goodman Media, our photographer John Chan, our production team, our volunteers and security team, and the team at Gotham Hall for their hospitality.

The 2024 New York Gala celebrated not just the progress we’ve made but also the collective commitment to creating a safer, braver future for the next generation. With your continued support, we will ensure every child feels safe, supported, and empowered to thrive. Thank you for being an essential part of this journey.

Michael Ball • Kyle Driscoll • Frank Longobardi

Howard I. Smith • Gerry Polizzi • Matthew Roux

November brings Movember, a global movement spotlighting men’s mental health and well-being. It’s the perfect time to address the unique challenges faced by boys, young men, and male-identifying individuals. Societal pressures often discourage vulnerability and help-seeking, leaving many feeling isolated. However, building community and fostering connection can significantly bolster resilience and improve mental health outcomes.

Supporting youth mental health doesn’t always require professional intervention. Small actions can make a big impact:

1. Encourage Open Conversations

Ask open-ended questions like, “How did that make you feel?” or “What might make this situation easier?”

Download our Conversation Cards for Changemakers to spark meaningful discussions at home or in group settings.

Or view our video on Effective Communication: A Guide For Parents

2. Model Healthy Coping Skills

Demonstrate techniques like journaling or deep breathing, encouraging youth to explore what works for them.

For extra support, download our Coping Skills Worksheet—a helpful tool to guide youth in identifying and practicing healthy ways to manage stress and emotions.

Download our Coping Skills Worksheet in English

Descarga nuestra hoja de Trabajo de Habilidades de Afrontamiento en Español

3. Normalize Seeking Help

Emphasize that asking for support is a strength. Share emergency resources to ensure youth know where to turn.

Finding support is a vital step in fostering mental health and resilience. Here are resources tailored to men, boys, and male-identifying individuals to promote self-care, connection, and well-being:

General Mental Health Resources:

• Movember Men’s Health Resources: Offers valuable resources specifically tailored to men’s mental health, including self-care tips, peer support programs, and educational materials.
• A Call to Men: Focuses on promoting healthy, respectful manhood by challenging traditional gender norms and offering tools to help boys and young men build stronger emotional connections and advocate for gender equity.
• Boys Town: Provides resources on social skills and coping strategies tailored for young boys and teenagers.

Emergency Support Services:

• Crisis Text Line: Text “HELLO” to 741741 for free, confidential support 24/7.
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or text 988 for immediate help and resources.
• Boys Town National Hotline: Call 1-800-448-3000 or text “VOICE” to 20121 for support from trained counselors.
• Love is Respect: Text “LOVEIS” to 22522 or call 1-866-331-9474 for guidance on unhealthy or abusive relationships.

Encourage youth in need to take the first step toward seeking help. Support is always available to create safer, braver spaces for all.

Join Us This Movember

This Movember, let’s challenge stigma and foster a culture of openness and resilience for male-identifying youth. Whether by joining initiatives, downloading resources, or simply starting a conversation, we can make a difference. Together, we can create safer, braver spaces where all youth can thrive.

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October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a crucial time to raise awareness, educate the public, and promote essential resources to prevent domestic violence. Each year, domestic violence affects millions, leaving lasting physical, emotional, and psychological scars. At the same time, Safe At Home is committed to fostering safer, braver spaces for those impacted by domestic violence. Through our trauma-informed Margaret’s Place programs, we provide direct support to students in schools by offering counseling, education, and peer leadership programs that help young people build healthy relationships.

Even if your school doesn’t have a Margaret’s Place program, this month, we are sharing valuable resources to empower communities and equip them with the tools needed to make a difference both inside and outside the classroom.

Although domestic violence can impact anyone, certain populations are more vulnerable. Recognizing how domestic violence affects different communities is crucial to ensuring equitable support and culturally sensitive resources.

These statistics demonstrate the diverse ways in which domestic violence affects different communities and highlight the need for culturally competent, inclusive resources to address this widespread issue.

Abuse can often be difficult to recognize, especially in relationships where power and control are involved. Here are some common signs that may indicate an abusive relationship:

• Extreme Jealousy: Constantly accusing you of being unfaithful or questioning who you spend time with
• Possessiveness: Acting as if they “own” you, controlling what you wear, where you go and who you see.
• Isolation: Cutting you off from friends, family, or social activities. They may guilt you into staying home or discourage you from seeing others.
• Constant Criticism: Regularly belittling you, calling you names, or making you feel worthless. They may make you doubt your self-worth or abilities.
• Blaming You for Their Behavior: Saying things like, “If you didn’t do that, I wouldn’t have gotten triggered,” or blaming you for their problems or bad mood.
• Unpredictable Mood Swings: Switching from being loving and caring to angry and violent without warning. You might feel like you’re “walking on eggshells”. 

If you notice any of these warning signs, it’s important to reach out for immediate help and support. Abusive behavior will often escalate over time, and early intervention is key to preventing further harm.

Remember, there is help and abuse is never your fault.

Starting conversations about domestic violence can feel overwhelming, but it’s essential to foster understanding and create safer spaces for all. Whether you’re communicating with children, teens, friends, or seeking help yourself, here’s how to approach these important discussions during Domestic Violence Awareness Month and beyond.

Communicating with Younger Children (Elementary Age)

Communicating with Teens and High School Students

Whether you are a student, educator, or supporter, everyone can play a role in creating safer, braver spaces this Domestic Violence Awareness Month. View upcoming events and ways to get involved below:

NYC Domestic Violence Awareness Month Events:

A full list of Domestic Violence Awareness Month events happening throughout New York City.

View the New York Calendar.

California Partnership to End Domestic Violence Events:

Find Domestic Violemce Awarenss Month events across California that promote awareness and action.

View the California Calendar.

Running Your Own Domestic Violence Awareness Month Campaign

Throughout the month, our Margaret’s Place counselors and Peer Leaders will be leading school-wide campaigns, promoting respect, healthy relationships, and raising awareness about domestic violence. Even if your school or community doesn’t have a Margaret’s Place program, you can still make an impact by running your own Domestic Violence Awareness Month campaign. Here’s how to get started:

1. Set a Goal: Define the focus of your campaign, whether it’s promoting healthy relationships, mental health, or domestic violence awareness.
2. Engage Your Community: Plan events, distribute flyers, and use social media to raise awareness. Encourage participation through events, workshops, or activities.
3. Create Materials: Get creative with social media graphics, posters, and videos to make your message impactful.
4. Collaborate with Peers: Work with your student body or local organizations to amplify your campaign’s reach.

For more detailed steps and ideas, check out our Campaign Tip Sheet.

Remember, you don’t need to be part of Margaret’s Place to make a difference!

Domestic violence is an issue that affects people of all ages, races, and backgrounds. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, lets educate ourselves, further support those in need, and raise awareness, so that together, we can create a future where everyone feels safer and braver.

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